Hello, I’m Christy.
I help women build their homes, in a world where so many homes are falling apart.
I sat across from a woman years ago, who shared with me how broken her home was when she was growing up. She said, “How am I supposed to know how to build a healthy home for my family?”
As the wife of a pastor and professional counselor, I also have had a front row seat when homes have crumbled before our eyes. It is heartbreaking.
So I’m scooting up in my chair and leaning forward, to encourage you that despite what you experienced in your home growing up or what you see happening in homes around you, it is possible to build a strong, vibrant home that can stand the test of time. I know, because God has helped me build this kind of home that is full of peace and joy, and I see my children doing the same. Allow me to use my experience and knowledge to guide you forward. Your home can be the one rising instead of falling.
“The wisest of women builds her house.”
(Proverbs 14:1a ESV)
My Experience and Expertise
I have been joyfully married to the same man for 35 years and have raised two children who are now thriving in building their homes.
I am a certified Dave Ramsey financial coach. I have managed our finances and budget for decades, following Dave Ramsey’s money principles. I know how it feels to go from overwhelming debt and out-of-control spending to using a budget, following Dave’s baby steps toward financial peace, becoming debt free (except for our mortgage), building wealth, and experiencing the freedom that comes from taking control of our finances.
I have years of experience in teaching PLACE, which is a class that helps followers of Christ consider their personalities, spiritual gifting, best work environment, passions, and life experiences, to know where they are best suited to serve in the body of Christ. In teaching PLACE, I have conducted over sixty personal coaching sessions with women, which has given me great insight into the hearts of women.
I clean professionally, so I have unique experience in caring for a house.
I am a professional teacher and have decades of experience in designing objectives and crafting experiences in which people can achieve those objectives.
I have an artistic, imaginative mind, so I can help you creatively reflect on where you are in home building and imagine where God wants to take you in a way that is unique to you.
Over the last several years, I have completely changed my health, so that in my 50’s I’m in the best health I’ve ever experienced. I have learned how to cook delicious, nutritious food for my family, and I care about staying physically active and mobile.
I am an organizer, in thought and in action. My aunt said, “I can’t believe you don’t have even one drawer in your house that is a mess.” I can help you figure out where to start managing your house, in a way that is doable and not overwhelming.
Lastly, I have walked closely with Jesus for almost 50 years and am a trained Precepts Bible teacher. I am especially passionate about bringing the truth of the Bible into real life. Above everything I might possibly have to offer, it’s the life-changing truth of the word of God that I will hold in front of you, to inform the practice of everyday living in your home.
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From Wyoming to Montana
I grew up in the small town of Lander, Wyoming, which boasts of one iconic Main Street and the best 4th of July parade you’ll find anywhere, with a high school marching band, real horses, and Native Americans sporting full beaded dress, all ending with a fireman shoot-out on 4th Street.
When I was growing up, Mom regularly would take me downtown to Ben Franklin’s department store, to buy me the latest Trixie Belden book. I would read until the sun went down, always begging for time to read one more chapter before lights out. A dictionary sat on the wooden shelf in our living room, used to settle disputes between my parents over word spellings and definitions, and we played “It Pays to Increase Your Word Power” out of Reader’s Digest when we went on road trips. This was the home where God shaped me to love words and the power of meaningful communication. Mom became a librarian when I was in middle school, and that fueled even more my love of books.
I attended the University of Mary Hardin Baylor in Texas where, in 1991, I got a degree in words and spoke I do to this fine man.
Now Matt is a preacher at Glacier Church, and I’m mighty proud of that. It’s my job to iron his preachin’ shirt and be ready with his evangelist hanky after a passionate sermon. The most romantic thing a couple can do is to work in tandem sharing the good news of Christ, and we make a good team. We’re 35 years into this adventure, and we say to one another, “I like you” every day.
Matthew and I live in Kalispell, Montana, where Glacier National Park is my backyard and Canadians come down to shop at my Costco. I’m not a great outdoors woman, but I do love looking at the Rocky Mountains with a cup of coffee in my hand. In the summer I always have garden dirt under my fingernails and enjoy taking walks to the park with my grandchildren.
In Big Sky Country, I am proudly the mother of this beautiful girl, Jayme, who became Mrs. Dylan Motley. We like him.
Now we’re watching these two bring new little people into the world, and we love these grandchildren so much. My ability to be a homemaker is being stretched in new ways these days, as our family grows. Lots more crumbs under the kitchen island now, and I wouldn’t change it for anything.
I’m also mother to this tall guy.
Caleb was the man of honor at his sister’s wedding–one of my sweetest parenting moments ever.
Caleb married Mallory, who is a gem from Houston. She brings into our family every bit of charm you would expect from a Texas girl.
That is my story and my home in pictures. I hope you can feel the joy in my family and allow me to walk with you as you create this kind of life-filled photo album, too.
Thank you for stopping by. May God help you build the kind of home that shines light in a dark world.
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