Can We Really Stop Worrying?


Can We Really Stop Worrying?

I have another smokin’ hot car story. Really hot. Caleb called the day before he was to fly home for Christmas, reporting that he was driving and his car started smoking. He babied it back to his apartment and left it to sit over the Christmas holidays.

So there I was, in the middle of the biggest spending time of year, with news that a big car repair might be in our future. But I have the most amazing story about not worrying –a turning point in my soul.

Before getting the smoking car phone call, I had recently finished writing a Bible study for our church on the book of Mark and was ankle deep in writing the next Bible study on the book of 1 Peter. Two new ways of thinking had entered my life, as I studied these books, and they profoundly affected how I responded to the bad car news.


God is at work ahead of us in our future, lining things up and making provisions. He’s already on it.

Remember the ladies who were going to anoint Jesus’ body after his burial?

Very early on the first day of the week, just after sunrise, they were on their way to the tomb and they asked each other, “Who will roll the stone away from the entrance of the tomb?”  (Mark 16:2 NIV)

As I read this, I was thinking of my own widowed mother and how frustrating it is when she simply doesn’t have the muscle or the know-how to do something. We’ve talked a lot about how sometimes you need a man’s help.

So I was picturing those ladies with brows creased, wondering what men they could convince to muscle the stone out of the way. But God had gone ahead of them to solve their problem. I imagined that lone angel flicking the massive stone out of the way and then plopping himself down on top of it. Ain’t no big thing.


Just say no to strong emotions.

In my study of 1 Peter, I had found two new words and had slid them into my scabbard in the event of enemy attack.

…be self-controlled…  (1 Peter 1:13 NIV)

When I looked up “self-controlled,” it means we are not to be influenced by strong emotion but are to stay in control of our spirits. Wow have I lived a lot of my life ruled by strong emotions.

Now back to the phone call from my son. After hearing the news, I sat on the stairs, where I settle to do a lot of my thinking. First, I felt the strong emotion of worry coming at me head on, but no! No, I would not be influenced by that emotion.

Can you even imagine that we have the ability to refuse to allow an emotion to take charge?

Instead, I chose to be rational in the moment and to think.

Thinking is different than feeling.

And in my thinking, the women and the stone came to mind. So I rationally applied the truth of that story to my own situation.

  1. God is always at work, both now and in the future.
  2. God has extraordinary resources.
  3. God has promised that he sees me and will always take care of me.
  4. God is already taking care of Caleb’s car situation, so I need not worry my pretty little head about it right now.

So I did not. I did not worry, and a person cannot fake the peace and complete calm that I felt about that car.

Complete calm.

And swirled in with the calm, like a soft-serve twist cone, was an amazing love for and intimacy with the Lord, as I smiled at him, leaned into his strong arms, and said, “I trust you. I totally trust you.”

Happy ending: My brother-in-law worked out repairs with a mechanic who offered us a sweet deal. We were ecstatic and so relieved at the low price. Then Caleb went to pick up the car, and the mechanic had accidentally brought the car down on a ladder, putting a crease in the bumper. He fixed it as best he could and refused to allow Caleb to paying anything for the repairs. It was all free.

Not everything in our lives turns out this peachy, but I’m telling you that God was out there taking care of what we needed before we ever approached that point in time.

So I pray for you today, that you will embrace the amazing truth that God is at work in your future. I pray you will believe he’s already on it, whatever “it” is. And I pray you will refuse to allow your emotions to bully you. May the Lord help you become a person who thinks and leans on Bible truth instead of freaking out.

Okay, next stop, taxes.

Goodbye, nail biting. Goodbye.


  1. Laura Nadler says:

    Such a timely post! Thank you for sharing. I especially appreciate the example of the women on their way to the tomb. I never thought about it like you shared. And, to know that God is ahead of us, making a way and provision. Thank you again!

  2. Thank you for this reminder of God going before us and preparing our way! Thank you for sharing your personal experience…. makes it easier to remember God is concerned with my personal situations! What a good good God He is!

    1. Yes, God is very concerned with every detail of your personal life. Such good news!

  3. I can so relate to your post today! We’ve been experiencing very similar things. God is good all the time but sometimes He just seems to like to throw a cherry on top! Hope you guys are doing well back at EHB, we miss the church there. We’re settling into Spokane nicely though. Praying for you and your writing that God will continue to use you mightily!

    1. I’m glad you’re doing well in Spokane! Thank you for the prayers. That is wonderful to hear!

  4. Funny. This is so complementary to the sermon series I am listening to from Pacific Crossroads Church in LA, about putting off the old self (recognizing the bullying emotions) and putting on the new, being renewed in the attitude of your mind (by meditating on the truth of God). Excellent post!

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